Betray not the trust of your woman.

Let no man who has betrayed the trust of his woman sleep peacefully in her bed. What is a marriage but a union based on trust to help each other towards the path of bliss in any form imaginable. Therefore those who decide to marry must remember to honour that trust placed upon them. With that the home and certainly the master-bedroom is the best refuge from anything harmful to both the partners in marriage. However, when one betray the trust, no longer should one expect the master-bedroom to be the safest for a woman scorned is the worse enemy a man can ever find.

There was this Indian woman who suspected her husband of having affairs outside the home. Whether what is suspect can be true or not is immaterial for once the seed of suspicion is sown, no one can turn back the tide of hatred that swells in the heart of the one betrayed, be that with substance or otherwise.

Therefore it is essential in marriage for transparency to be in all deeds and times. With that there can be no suspicion and the devil cannot perform any divisive moves to the marriage.

Well, this woman must have thoroughly believed her suspicions and must have grounds for doing so, for she had lodged a police report against the husband for his infidelity. However, knowing that the police would be too slow in their actions, she decided to take matters in her own hands and teach him a most memorable lesson as making that police report was not sufficient to appease her own besieged mind. Of course, she knew she could never overcome her husband as she was admittedly weaker. Hah! But there are ways to weaken him as he has a weakness for drinking. So that night she spiked his drinks and sent him into a drunken stupor. In that drunken state he was defenceless as she went on to take revenge on him. Therefore, my dear friend, if you do drink make sure that your spouse loves and cares for you dearly, otherwise you drink at your own risk as this story will reveal.

That night, as the husband lay numbed and drugged by drink, she sharpened her kitchen knife and with one clean swipe severed his limp penis. Unfortunately, we are not told what happened to that penis after the incident. Was it sewn back and restored to its former state by a surgeon? Did she minced up the sausage look-alike? Was it given to the dog or a cat? Gruesome indeed when we think of the possibilities. Whatever it is, it is certainly safer to be faithful than to lose that pleasure-tool. Furthermore, how is the guy going to urinate after that? So, the next time when a friend gets itchy and you wish to get him 'to walk the line' for the sake of his family, tell him this story. Maybe not then but in later years, he will thank you for it. After all, it is not just the fear of losing a penis but also the danger of being presented with all kinds of venereal diseases.

And this is not the only true story. If you read the news daily, you know there are more cases of this popping up every now and then. Women are learning fast some of the ways to keep their men in line. Although it is somewhat cruel but then it does help to keep things right so that divorces do not happen as divorces bring lots of problems to many, the poor innocent children
and the person you once loved and most probably still do. It is time couples learn to be matured, to be fair to each other, to think of each others welfare and the consequences that ought not to come, especially to our children; consequences which can traumatise them for the rest of their lives. (I have personally seen the depression that can come to such children. God, is it fair?)